Helping Someone/Volunteer?

There is a perception that helping someone or engaging a volunteer activities is a good thing.

Is it really true?

If this come from your lack of self worth/lonliness, there would be no good outcome.

You might be creating more unhappy poeple who you believe they need help.

People you believe they are not self sufficient without you….they won’t be sufficient till

both believe everybody is already fully capable and complete being.

You might want to check with yourself that your are not always looking for someone to help or are good at finding someone to help.

Because if there is demand, there is supply.

This could be true in any relationships; parent-children, boyfriend-girlfriend, work place, etc.

People thanking you is the only time you feel worthy….means you give other people power to decide who you are.